Do you Have Social Anxiety

By Kathy Nelson

When people have social anxiety disorder or social phobia everyday situations can become very overwhelming. These feelings can become intense and can vary from person to person. People who have anxiety disorders will all fear different types of situations.

Not everyone with anxiety disorder will have the same symptoms, we are all different so anxiety will have different effects on all of us. Some people will fear fear itself and fall into the ongoing circle of fear and anxiety while others fear nothing apart from being embarrassed.

When you are entering into a new place or a new situation you may feel a tinge of nerves. The feelings that someone who has an anxiety disorder has will make your tinge of nerves seem like nothing, they may well be trembling, their heart could be pounding, they will feel sick and be sweaty.

These symptoms of anxiety can often lead to embarrassment for the person that has social anxiety. Some people that have social anxiety disorder are comfortable being only with close family and friends.

Other people with social anxiety only fear certain social situations. Some people become anxious when they are dealing with people in higher positions such as their boss. This affects their positions at work and can be detrimental to their career.

Speaking in public is a common fear of people with social anxiety disorder. Other fears can be eating in restaurants, using public restrooms, and using telephones.

No one really knows why but women are more likely than men to have social anxiety disorders, some people have a theory that there are many men who suffer but never say anything and don't get treatment for it. If this is the case they must just retreat into their own world of pain and that is a shame, there are ways for all of us to get help and no one should suffer from anxiety disorders alone.

The signs that someone has or will have a social anxiety disorder usually starts at an early age. Your child may be shy but they can still have bouts of anxiety, there is a difference between shyness and anxiety. People who are shy do not usually avoid social situations while someone who has a social anxiety disorder will do all they can to avoid anything that they feel will cause them to be embarrassed. - 29881

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